What if the sadist looses the inclination to inflict pain ? I’ve experienced periods (sometimes long periods) where, while I’m still intellectually interested in SM, I just haven’t been able to face actually running a scene. The culprits in my case have generally been worries, stress, tiredness or depression –… Continue reading
The South America has vibrant past and present regarding the human trafficking and abuse of women and children and during this turmoil time the word called BDSM came into the lime light even though this type of erotic sexual play has been popular in the Latin countries for a long… Continue reading
Wow, this has turned out to be so much more interesting as a thread than I expected. I kinda wanted to keep my own opinions out of it, since I was the one judged as not understanding, but there’s a few points I feel I should answer and clarify from… Continue reading
Responses to: Masochism, Pain or Abuse? Anonymous – BDSM Model and lifestyle submissive: “Another example of someone commending on S+M who seems as though they aren’t a sadist or a masochist. I’m a masochist (self-identified) and I’ve been in a scene with Magick at least 5 times, as well as… Continue reading
Masochism, Pain or Abuse? Responses. Mainly Anonymised. Anonymous response: “Erm i am masso but i cry scream and run away from the pain. Id be upset if someone stopped. Weve sadly not managed to arrange a proper play between each other but you are on my i want list as… Continue reading
I recently recieved this email. I would be interested in responses from anyone that knows me, or ideally has actually played with me (especially on the sites). I have linked the author of the original mail to this post, prior to seeing any replies, to allow him to judge openly… Continue reading
George looked over his two slaves. “I don’t think either one of you gets it,” he said. He untied Natalie and led her to a large wooden frame. There were leather cuffs for her wrists and ankles on the frame. George used them, spreading her arms over her head and… Continue reading
How Natalie had fallen into this bizarre situation concerned her less than the fact she had fallen into it. George was handsome and charming. What Natalie hadn’t known about him was that he was into bondage. In a big way. She had been shocked when he asked her to be… Continue reading
Sadists & Doms – Do You Switch? Do you sometimes try out the submissive role, do you try the tools and tortures you make your sub or masochist endure to know how it feels? I used to feel this way when i was younger. I tried switching, but that rapidly… Continue reading
Delightsome torment and erotic pain is something that is very difficult to explain unless there is something inside of you that draws you toward it. Many subs crave it, it settles them down. I’m undoubted you know many endorphins are released in the body when it is “panic-struck” during a… Continue reading